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Why you should stop trying new social media sites

March 1, 2010 By Mark Tosczak

Google Wave. Google Buzz. Farmville. Foursquare. Gowalla. Yelp.

Maze

Don't get lost in the maze of choices social media offers. (Photo source: http://www.sxc.hu/photo/1093677)

The list goes on and on. There are more social media sites, social media apps and cool online things that people are talking about than I will ever have time to fully explore. Even though I make my living in part by helping companies use social media, I can’t commit enough time to explore every new thing to come along. Chances are, you don’t have the time either. And that’s OK.

It’s easy to get caught up in trying the latest and “greatest,” easy to worry that you’re going to miss out on the next Facebook or Twitter if you don’t jump on a new site right away. In other words, it’s easy to forget why we’re here in the first place.

We’re here to have conversations, to learn, to market and brand ourselves, our businesses and our causes. Actually doing those things requires work, attention and focus. But the siren song of Google’s latest project or the newest game that all your friends seem to be playing on Facebook can be all too alluring sometimes.

A better strategy might be to focus on just a handful of sites and activities, to spend real time building real relationships, creating real content and establishing a real presence. It’s OK to not be everywhere. Instead, pick your places and really BE there. For me, these days, that means I’m spending a lot of time focusing on this blog (my home base on the web), on Twitter and on Facebook. I spend less time on LinkedIn and a private forum or two.

I have dipped my toe into Google Buzz and Google Wave, am intrigued by FourSquare but not ready yet to focus on it, and I keep an eye on the news, apps and sites that keep social media enthusiasts talking. But that’s all. And that’s OK. It’s better to pick your places, focus and have an impact. Trying to be everywhere is probably a formula for being nowhere.

So I don’t really mean that you should never try a new social media site. It just means that you should do so carefully and with some consideration as to why you’re doing it and how it fits into your overall goals.

What say you? Where do you spend your time online and how do you figure out what’s valuable? Please leave your thoughts in the comments below.

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Filed Under: Career, Networking, Online marketing, Personal branding, Social media

Comments

  1. Bethany Smith says:
    March 3, 2010 at 10:12 am

    Great advice Mark. I’m actually giving a presentation tomorrow about how to go beyond a PLN (Personal Learning Network) and focus on the people not the new tools. The last couple of your posts have been giving me some great idea for my talk. Thanks for the inspiration!

  2. Mark Tosczak says:
    March 3, 2010 at 10:30 am

    Thanks Bethany! I think it’s way too easy to get caught up in the latest, shiniest tool and forget that at the end of the day, people are reason we’re using these tools.

  3. Bethany Smith says:
    March 3, 2010 at 10:37 am

    You might also appreciate this graphic from Ross Mayfield on the “Power Law of Participation.” I plan on using this as the backbone of my presentation.

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/ross/541707092/sizes/l/

  4. Mark Tosczak says:
    March 3, 2010 at 11:00 am

    I hadn’t seen that before – but very interesting. Thanks!

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